Same like relationship between human beings who need love, respect and attention. Your relationship and your money should also be built with that foundation. If you love your money, then your money will love you back. 

According to Barbara Stanny, author of Secret Six-Figure Women, if you want a decent life with the fulfillment of all needs, so give love and give a little respect to your money. 

Same as a relationship that requires loyalty. Your relationships and your money  also need  high loyalty. Still according  Stanny, there are three ways to love your money. 

1. Do not wasteful in spend your money. 

Many people say that the money have temporary charateristic, one minute the money in your hand then have already switch  to pay for things. 

Before that money move to the other  hands,  set money aside few percent and saving it. You can save it to the bank, or in the piggy bank first. If you have enough collected then transfer to a bank account. 

2. Show your love. 

A relationship with money can not whatever you like, if you do something bad of your money although just once, he will also be evil to you. Excessive spending, buying all the goods based on desire  is evil action on the money. Here are some ways to love your money: 

• Right time to pay taxes or charges. 

• Take the prize that offered by credit card.

• Using a credit card wisely 

3.  Plan the Future Together 

Do not hasitate about your future. Although it looks impossible, but if you plan the future together with all the money it will be possible. 

Now if you are 20 or 30 years, so this is good time to start investing. By invested money as early as possible means you have succeeded in getting 50% of the future.